Saturday, February 11, 2006
Views
one can separate a simple category "friend" into 3 types of friends:
1. real friends: the type who stick neck out to defend 流言蜚语
2. fake friends: the type who throw fuel into fire.
3. good-time friends: the type who ming2 zhe2 bao3 shen1 - sit on the fence.
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the above was written by singablogger in another blogger's comment pertaining to my view of my previous blog topic
i think his way of categorising of friends is not very smart (even though it is a simple category)
1. doesnt mean his is yr friend, so must support him blindly (even close friend or siblings can hv different view)
2. many commenters are commenting basis the issue and not the person. their views differed from u dont mean they throw fuel into it but they r just voicing out their opinion. different view is NOT equal to fake friend
3. no comment doesnt mean sit on the fence thus clasified as "good-time" friend (manyatimes, pple dont want to get involved too much in the cyber world) doesnt mean that since u dont support me or view differently from me, u r a fake friend
though i really respect n salute singablogger for his sharp analytical power but he tends to de-route one's view to another issue and argue strongly on the new de-routed view n whoever disagree wif his idea r all wrong n need to be condemned
my view on that man still didnt change but everyone n anyone can disagree on my view n stick to his view instead, i wont argue wif him to change his view n must agree to mine
singablogger, just my thinking, everybody can have his own view on certain issue, not necessarily to agree to yours only
perspective is very subjective
person wif diff viewws from u doesnt mean he is wrong n definitely doesnt mean he is not a friend cos his thinking differs
i m not shooting u but pointing out u way of thinking differs from what i think
a friend cannot be clasified just by his thinking even if his thinking differs from yours totally
1. real friends: the type who stick neck out to defend 流言蜚语
2. fake friends: the type who throw fuel into fire.
3. good-time friends: the type who ming2 zhe2 bao3 shen1 - sit on the fence.
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the above was written by singablogger in another blogger's comment pertaining to my view of my previous blog topic
i think his way of categorising of friends is not very smart (even though it is a simple category)
1. doesnt mean his is yr friend, so must support him blindly (even close friend or siblings can hv different view)
2. many commenters are commenting basis the issue and not the person. their views differed from u dont mean they throw fuel into it but they r just voicing out their opinion. different view is NOT equal to fake friend
3. no comment doesnt mean sit on the fence thus clasified as "good-time" friend (manyatimes, pple dont want to get involved too much in the cyber world) doesnt mean that since u dont support me or view differently from me, u r a fake friend
though i really respect n salute singablogger for his sharp analytical power but he tends to de-route one's view to another issue and argue strongly on the new de-routed view n whoever disagree wif his idea r all wrong n need to be condemned
my view on that man still didnt change but everyone n anyone can disagree on my view n stick to his view instead, i wont argue wif him to change his view n must agree to mine
singablogger, just my thinking, everybody can have his own view on certain issue, not necessarily to agree to yours only
perspective is very subjective
person wif diff viewws from u doesnt mean he is wrong n definitely doesnt mean he is not a friend cos his thinking differs
i m not shooting u but pointing out u way of thinking differs from what i think
a friend cannot be clasified just by his thinking even if his thinking differs from yours totally
# posted by noeyesee @ 11:30 AM 
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In summary, what noeyeseesee is trying to say is:
Everything is in the grey area nowadays...
nothing last forever. so long conflict of interest appears and that person is selfish, there's no such thing as friendship.
true friends will try to bring their friends to the right track.
but can't say friends ain't true by not bring them on track:they believe sometimes the lives of their friends belong to their own friend, who are they to rule them?
that's why so many grey stuff .... how to differentiate right or wrong?
reasons. reasonable reasons ;)
Everything is in the grey area nowadays...
nothing last forever. so long conflict of interest appears and that person is selfish, there's no such thing as friendship.
true friends will try to bring their friends to the right track.
but can't say friends ain't true by not bring them on track:they believe sometimes the lives of their friends belong to their own friend, who are they to rule them?
that's why so many grey stuff .... how to differentiate right or wrong?
reasons. reasonable reasons ;)
singablogger
u darn long-winded sia
i wont go on non-stop like u do repeating yourself again n again, pointless la
1) i still cannot agree to his behaviour thus i classified him as what i did earlier, no change
2) agreeing wif me or not do not classify a person into the diff group of friends
3) kept quiet doesnt mean not a true friend
blogs that are not "well-known"? what makes u say so? how do u justify it? bu counter? hello hers has got no counter la. i can read any blog i want n it has nothing to do wif my profile, age, interest or whatever. i even read yr 狂博. (yeah now its yr turn to deny)
last but not least, why u keep implying someone or a group of others are telling me what to say in my blog? that shows u still dont understand me well.
to u, stand up for him is a true friend; disagree wif him or agree wif me is his fake friend; sit on the fence is good-time friend only;
ok if those r yr views but i disagree thats why i posted my view
again, i think theres no right no wrong, only diff views
u darn long-winded sia
i wont go on non-stop like u do repeating yourself again n again, pointless la
1) i still cannot agree to his behaviour thus i classified him as what i did earlier, no change
2) agreeing wif me or not do not classify a person into the diff group of friends
3) kept quiet doesnt mean not a true friend
blogs that are not "well-known"? what makes u say so? how do u justify it? bu counter? hello hers has got no counter la. i can read any blog i want n it has nothing to do wif my profile, age, interest or whatever. i even read yr 狂博. (yeah now its yr turn to deny)
last but not least, why u keep implying someone or a group of others are telling me what to say in my blog? that shows u still dont understand me well.
to u, stand up for him is a true friend; disagree wif him or agree wif me is his fake friend; sit on the fence is good-time friend only;
ok if those r yr views but i disagree thats why i posted my view
again, i think theres no right no wrong, only diff views
emiriyoshikawa
u views on friends is darn solid sia, thumbs up.
sori pal, i cant answer u too cos i m not sg
u views on friends is darn solid sia, thumbs up.
sori pal, i cant answer u too cos i m not sg
Brota,
Have a wonderful and romantic Valentine's Day with your girly ya.
Warmest Regards,
Ling ;-)
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Have a wonderful and romantic Valentine's Day with your girly ya.
Warmest Regards,
Ling ;-)
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